messiah college in south central pennsylvania is one of the venues where the christian rock band i used to be in would perform. on one such trip i met a girl named carrie from new england, and we spent much of one afternoon talking about all manner of things. my good friend matthew (the same friend who lent me his camera) was taking pictures of the event, and took one of carrie. he gave it to me, and i wrote her a letter telling her i enjoyed meeting her and talking to her very much, and enclosed the picture. she never wrote back.